Sensuous massage for the man
Energetic processes

Excerpts from course material for basic massaging techniques at
AnandaWave by Michaela Riedl

When you learn to understand how energy works in your body
you’ll be able to expand genital orgasms to whole-body
orgasms and to use sexual energy to improve your creativity
and health. Taoism makes a distinction between ejaculation
and orgasm. Ejaculating is only a physical act, which pushes
semen out of the body and is often linked to a loss of energy.
An orgasm is an intense, pleasant, energetic state.

A whole-body orgasm occurs when sexual energy and the
breathing energy are built up to such an extent that erotic and
sexual emotions can cirulate throughout the entire body.

When a man is in an orgiastic state he often cannot say if he
has an erection or not or whether he has ejaculated or not. The
emotions are not limited to the genital area but circulate
everywhere, in his entire being. Therefore it is good to avoid
ejaculation because it often is linked to a loss of energy.
Semen contains a lot of life energy, which can be used
consciously and practically.

With a lingam massage a man can experience an orgasm
without ejaculating, because he “injaculates“ instead.

There is an acupressure point between the anus and the
scrotum. By putting pressure on this point ejaculation can be
reversed and an orgasm improved. Semen is retracted by the
filled prostate and absorbed by the blood. This point is called
Jen-Mo point. In Taoism and sexual Kung Fu this point is
called “point of a million gold coins“

If you put pressure on it with your finger the energy is
heightened by the meridians, which, at this point, start to go
upward in your body rather than escape from it – as is normally
the case with ordinary ejaculations. This way the man
experiences all the pleasant feelings of prostate contractions:
he experiences the same feeling after the orgasm as prior to
the orgasm.

During a lingam massage a lot of energy is built up, which is
deliberately used for transformation and for expanding the
consciousness. Margo Anand, tantrist and founder of the Sky
Dancing Tantra, and us as well work, in terms of sexual
energy, with the image of an inner flute. This “inner flute“ runs in
a vertical line inside the body and serves as a tool for
imagination, in order to follow the neurological and physical
paths in the body, linking the endocrine glands.
These seven glands, the – the gonads, the adrenaline gland,
the pancreas, the thymus gland, the thyroid gland, the pituitary
gland and the pineal gland regulate the life energy and the
energy floor in the body.
Opening this inner flute creates a feeling of vitality,
rejuvenation and raised sexual energy. With the use of
visualisations woman can experience the inner flute by letting
the arising sexual energy flow through this channel.
So you can actually learn how to play this flute, with the help of
seven finger holes, which correspond with the seven chacras
or energy centres of the body. The chacras symbolically
represent the energetic field, which are created by the
endocrine glands of the body.
Rising in the inner flute, the sexual energy will be transformed
while moving through the individual chacras, which will show in
different emotions, feelings and colours.

The Chacras:

1. The sexual chacra:
The first chacra corresponds to the sexual centre and is
associated with giving birth and all emotions, which relate to
life and survival. When the energy can flow freely through this
chacra, you’ll notice how the sexual drive will encourage you to
be wild, to release tension and to gain fulfilment.

2. The navel chacra:
The second chacra is directly under the navel. It is the natural
balance and movement centre of the body. When the energy
can flow freely through this centre, you feel strong and
vitalised, and feel liveliness, which is given to us by a healthy
and relaxed body.

3. The solar-plexus-chacra:
This chacra is directly underneath the middle of the last rib.
Here sexual energy is experienced as personal power, as
charisma and self-confidence. When this chacra is relaxed
and open, lovers can control their feelings and can have an
equal partnership.

4. The heart chacra:
This chacra is in the rib cage, right in the middle of the line
between the nipples. Here sexual energy is experienced as a
desire to become one with the other person – both have the
feeling of being part of the other person.

5. The larynx chacra:
When this chacra is opened, the woman knows who she is
and what she wants and is also able to express it.

6. The forehead chacra or the Third Eye:
When the sexual energy has reached this point it is very pure,
fresh and clear, and linked to the raised feeling of freedom
and wideness. You’ll discover the power of intuition and
imagination and you’ll have inner visions.

7. The scull cap and crown chacra:
When the energy has reached the scull cap, you’ll feel the
happiness to be linked to all things and human beings that
surround you.

Margo Anand:
“The chacras are working together in a system, in which each
chacra influences the energy of another chacra. If a chacra is
strained or is out of balance the other chacras will also be
affected and their life-force will be reduced. If a chacra is
healed and relaxed it will also vitalise all other chacras.”

The PC- Pump:
A very important muscle for intensifying the sexual energy and
desire is the “PC-muscle”. It spreads around the pelvis in the
shape of a butterfly, connecting the anus and the genitals with
the spine and the legs. It is the main muscle of the pelvis,
controlling the opening and closing of urethra, semen channel
and anus. It is also the muscle that one has to trust when you
urgently need to urinate, but circumstances don't allow it. Men
can feel this muscle especially strongly when they want to
press out the last drop of urine.
Training the PC-muscle can help men to enormously enhance
their sexual consistence, to have a bigger erection and to be
able to have a more lustful experience beyond the genital
area. This pump-exercise (to flex and relax the PC-muscle)
does not just prepare your PC-muscle for sexual practices, but
can also let sexual energy build up in the inner flute. This
exercise, together with consciously breathing in and out
(breathing in when flexing the PC-muscle and breathing out
when loosening the PC-muscle) can always be integrated into
the lingam massage.