Sensuous massage for the man
Genital massage / Big Draw:

Tantra teacher Silvio Wirth on the sensuous massage:

“Nothing identifies a man more than his penis and its
behaviour. It is his trial period, his pride or his condemnation,
his identification or non-identification with men, his link to the
world of women, his cane of sorrow, his testing stick, his
measurement and ID card“ sociologist Dieter Duhm wrote with
disarming openness.

There is no satisfying word for it in English: neither the clinical
word “penis“ nor the ridiculous sounding words like “dick“,
“cock“ or “wiener“ can express the meaning that a penis has to
us men. They only show that we are repressed pupils who
have make jokes once something becomes serious.

In Taoist China it is called “jade wand” or “karmesin bird”.
Here it has survived a culture in which the lingam and yoni are
considered healing and important parts of the body, which
need as much touching, care and love as the rest of the human
being. Inspired by Taoist sources the Californian tantrist Joe
Kramer has developed a lingam massage, which is healing
and energising at the same time. And also the most lustful
thing man can possibly imagine.

The old Chinese study of Taoism talks about an important
energy process: the transformation of sexual energy called
Ching into the life energy Chi. With men and women Ching is
produced in the gonads. This energy is rather rough but we
have plenty of it and it is used for reproduction. If Ching energy
is to be refined to Chi, it can be used to vitalise and rejuvenate
body and mind and to harmonise the love between man and
woman.

This, however, takes concentrated practice of Qi Gong or Tao
Yoga by Mantak Chia. The sensuous massage causes the
same energy process in a very simple manner: Man only has
to lie down and enjoy and follow the energy flow in his body.
This leads to flowing and pulsating and finally even to a
whole-body ecstasy, which is even more pleasant and
long-lasting in a sensation of lust than a sexual climax: a
well-known tantra mistress has well described this feeling as
“riding the wave of bliss”. Afterwards your body won’t feel
weakened, but strengthened and relaxed, in a way that many
men have not felt before.

Men who now think they already know something about the
world will be surprised what pleasures had escaped him so
far. Whoever doesn’t know this massage has missed out on
something important.

The massage climaxes in the Big Draw, an easy to learn
Taoist special technique in which the orgasm implodes inside
the body instead of exploding outside. Your whole body fills
with warmth and turns into pleasant shivering. Afterwards a
man doesn’t feel weakened but full of energy. I have been
surprised at how much I’ve been able to enhance my own
sexuality and I have discovered dimensions of healing lust I
didn’t know existed.


The Big Draw – the big pulling up

In the course of a 2-hour massage you, as our guest at
ANANDA, have the chance to try out a tantric breathing and
energy exercise, which is called the “Big Draw”. If you wish to
hold back your ejaculation to use this energy for yourself and
for your health and creativity and also to experience and
all-body orgasm without losing energy, you are advised to
practice the “Big Draw”.

The “Big Draw” is good for spreading your completely built-up
sexual and erotic energy throughout your entire body. You
thereby avoid that the energy is not only limited to the genital
area and you also avoid sexual “tension”, which can easily
happen when you don’t ejaculate. By avoiding ejaculation and
by practising the Big Draw you can make a whole new
experience maybe an all-body orgasm. Discover your
sexuality in a new and different way.

Instructions for the Big Draw:
Slowly and deeply exhale shortly before reaching an orgasm.
Make sure that you also exhale the rest of the air in your body.
It’ll work best if you exhale on “fffff“. Once you’ve fully exhaled
there will be a “hunger for air“, which automatically animates
you to breathe properly in the stomach region. Take a deep
breath. Close anus and throat and hold your breath for at least
a minute. Make a fist and tense all your muscles as much as
possible. If you want you can also bend your knees. Hold it,
hold it, hold it and then let go, relax and feel what is happening
to your body now. If you want, your mind can send this energy
from the sexual region, along the spine, to your heart.
 

We don’t want to publish the exact steps and explanations to a
yoni massage on the internet as this would be too much
information.